He's not that into you

I begin with the title of an interesting movie that I watched yesterday, the intro was my favorite part, it made me think how women make many mistakes with men when they like them.
So I decided to write some kind of advices to those women who have a wrong thought about starting a relationship.Some of these are based on my experiences but most of them are based on other girls experiences. Here we go, let's be cruel:

•  First, if a man treats you like garbage, doesn't care about your feelings, insults you, and he doesn't want to have a serious relationship with you, well, he doesn't love you.
• Stop thinking that all bad treatments you have to put up with it's because "he's confused".
• If he doesn't call you after a "lovely night" it's not because he's too shy or he might be busy, he cares about some important things than you.
• Stop thinking that he will mellow if you're pregnant, because you would commit a huge mistake and the one who is going to suffer a lot is going to be the baby.
• Don't talk about marriage at the beginning of your relationship, he might not be ready to make that commitment neither do you...
• If he tells you he doesn't love you, it's because he doesn't, he's not confused and he's not angry with you, he's just not that into you.
• Even if you have sex with him you have 50/50 percent to marry him or not.
• Don't call him many many times if the answer is always an excuse to not going out with you.
• Don't push him thinking that he could fall in love with you if you chase him all the time.
• Don't be sticky, sometimes those men are not for you, so don't force anything.
• Be yourself and let things happen, you will find a man who loves you and you will love him, he will respect you and he won't use any violence against you, a person who loves you doesn't hurt you.
• Don't think that you have to be with someone just because you're going to be alone. Think what kind of person you want in order to enrich your life.
• Don't be afraid about lonelyness,  being alone it's a choice :)

So I leave you the intro of the movie I watched yesterday.



Bianka

Let's make it!

I keep struggling with the wrong idea that I need someone in my life, a friend wanted me to "open my eyes" and  see that I truly need a lover.... No, this is not the moment to be with someone, why? As I said before, I'm living a catharsis, I need to love myself first to have confidence in me, besides I still have emotional luggage from the past. A relationship doesn't define your life and I don't think I'm wasting time for not giving me the opportunity to have a relationship with someone, right now I can't give anything to anyone.

And I'm missing my ex very much  but it's not a couple desire, it's a friend desire, I really want to talk to him and telling all the things that are happening in my life and I want to know how is he. I realized that  both of us had  fault  in our break up. I will talk to him when I feel peace inside. I wish the best for him.

The time is comming!! Not the end of the world, but my time is coming! I will tell you in later posts.
And about the picture, I need to take me photos in another place and not always in my car hehehe but I really like it.

Blessings


Bianka

I needed to hear that fact

Well, I closed the chapter and it still hurts, I made a hard decision...If I want to leave the past behind I need to forget, nevertheless, I had good moments but this is now, this is me, I still had the hope to comeback with my ex boyfriend but today he told me he doesn't love me anymore...

When you love someone you can't stop loving that person... I cried and I felt guilty but it was not my fault.

It's time for a new beginning

Bianka

I regret one thing

Yesterday I walked through the streets and something happened, I started to feel sad at the beginning, when I was looking to a little boy helping his mom, she was cooking with spoiled vegetables to give her son to eat, she was selling french fries, hamburguers in a tiny space outside the stadium, the boy was eager to eat but first he had to wash the dishes... I don't know if those people are happy or not, they suffer but I can see in their faces resignation, I almost cry because many people are suffering and I, I'm dying in a glass of water...

Later, I sat in the main square, waiting for my sister, and there was a couple that were sitting next to me, the girl was crying and the boy was saying to stop crying... You know what? In that moment I regretted one thing of my former relation and it was that I cried a lot and I think my ex  boyfriend got tired of that... I regret having cried in front of him and now I realized that I used to cry for stupid things, I was afraid that we break up and what happened? Well, we did... Sometimes you don't have to waste your tears, nothing is forever...

Well, there is sadness in the world and there is joy in people's eyes, I know that life sometimes is unfair for some people...
Here you have a  video of Keane, I love this song, enjoy it!


Bianka