So I decided to write some kind of advices to those women who have a wrong thought about starting a relationship.Some of these are based on my experiences but most of them are based on other girls experiences. Here we go, let's be cruel:
- First, if a man treats you like garbage, doesn't care about your feelings, insults you, and he doesn't want to have a serious relationship with you, well, he doesn't love you.
- Stop thinking that all bad treatments you have to put up with it's because "he's confused".
- If he doesn't call you after a "lovely night" it's not because he's too shy or he might be busy, he cares about some important things than you.
- Stop thinking that he will mellow if you're pregnant, because you would commit a huge mistake and the one who is going to suffer a lot is going to be the baby.
- Don't talk about marriage at the beginning of your relationship, he might not be ready to make that commitment neither do you...
- If he tells you he doesn't love you, it's because he doesn't, he's not confused and he's not angry with you, he's just not that into you.
- Even if you have sex with him you have 50/50 percent to marry him or not.
- Don't call him many many times if the answer is always an excuse to not going out with you.
- Don't push him thinking that he could fall in love with you if you chase him all the time.
- Don't be sticky, sometimes those men are not for you, so don't force anything.
- Be yourself and let things happen, you will find a man who loves you and you will love him, he will respect you and he won't use any violence against you, a person who loves you doesn't hurt you.
- Don't think that you have to be with someone just because you're going to be alone. Think what kind of person you want in order to enrich your life.
- Don't be afraid about lonelyness, being alone it's a choice :)
Bianka
