He's not that into you

I begin with the title of an interesting movie that I watched yesterday, the intro was my favorite part, it made me think how women make many mistakes with men when they like them.
So I decided to write some kind of advices to those women who have a wrong thought about starting a relationship.Some of these are based on my experiences but most of them are based on other girls experiences. Here we go, let's be cruel:

•  First, if a man treats you like garbage, doesn't care about your feelings, insults you, and he doesn't want to have a serious relationship with you, well, he doesn't love you.
• Stop thinking that all bad treatments you have to put up with it's because "he's confused".
• If he doesn't call you after a "lovely night" it's not because he's too shy or he might be busy, he cares about some important things than you.
• Stop thinking that he will mellow if you're pregnant, because you would commit a huge mistake and the one who is going to suffer a lot is going to be the baby.
• Don't talk about marriage at the beginning of your relationship, he might not be ready to make that commitment neither do you...
• If he tells you he doesn't love you, it's because he doesn't, he's not confused and he's not angry with you, he's just not that into you.
• Even if you have sex with him you have 50/50 percent to marry him or not.
• Don't call him many many times if the answer is always an excuse to not going out with you.
• Don't push him thinking that he could fall in love with you if you chase him all the time.
• Don't be sticky, sometimes those men are not for you, so don't force anything.
• Be yourself and let things happen, you will find a man who loves you and you will love him, he will respect you and he won't use any violence against you, a person who loves you doesn't hurt you.
• Don't think that you have to be with someone just because you're going to be alone. Think what kind of person you want in order to enrich your life.
• Don't be afraid about lonelyness,  being alone it's a choice :)

So I leave you the intro of the movie I watched yesterday.



Bianka