Sunday, July 21, 2013

I'm not charming

Yesterday I found, in my mom's things, a course book called "How to be charming"  It was a christian book, written by a pastor's wife I think... As I was reading that book I realized that I didn't fit in any of the canons that a "charming woman" had suppose to behave... The most interesting thing about that book is that how the feminity of a woman  was portrayed; the book said that a charming woman shouldn't be angry, should be well dressed, should smile all the time and many sexist things. My sister, as a joke, told me that I should follow all those advices that  were in the book so I could be more femenine... Well  I think I'm girly, and I don't care what a book says about feminity, a woman creates her own feminity and the false idea of feminity that mass media portrait is a bunch of lies.

Every woman is beautiful, unique and amazing. You just have to believe in you!

Here's a picture of me. All of these years I've been complaining about my nose, thinking about a cosmetic surgery but now I realize that I wouldn't be the same if I fix my nose, it's part of me and I love it!

God bless you :)

Bianka

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